You see gents, in a situation like this you definitely leave your car door wide open, when you need to make certain that it’s closed shut and you got your keys on lock. When a girl finds herself in a vulnerable situation, she stops thinking with her mind and her heart takes over, she starts having all of these mixed emotions inside and she’s left to wonder where in the world her relationship is going. If this is a chic that you feel is worth being with then you need to ensure that you are giving her what she needs. Now I’m not saying to go overboard as some girls require but you need to give her what she needs so that another man don’t try to step foot into your territory.
Now believe me, I am very well aware that sometimes life can get in the way and prevent you from doing some of the things you very well intended to do. But the best way to get over those humps is to communicate these things to your partner. Let you girl or guy know what it is you feel and find that happy medium where it works for the both of you. Ladies, if you feel you’re not getting the attention you need from your man than let him know. My girl tells me all the time, that men can be so oblivious to what is completely obvious to a girl, (yeah, yeah). Ladies maybe it’s just our nature to not be able to read you guys all that well sometimes, so please when you need us to pay attention then let us know, don’t go out seeking another man’s attention or even let it get to that point.
I know that when people get vulnerable they do end up doing stupid things, so what I’m saying especially for those out there that are in long distance relationships, don’t leave your girl or car door unattended (ladies please don’t get offended by the car door analogy, no harm intended) because if she gets taken away then you are to blame. Do right by your girl so that you are not the one to blame if she ever decides to walk away.