Diary of a Fatherless Girl

Too scared to get hurt

Someone once said that “a mother teaches her daughter how to be a woman, while a mother teaches her son how to love [and make a woman feel special]. A father teaches his son how to be a man, while a father teaches his daughter HOW TO LOVE.”

As mentioned before in my previous article Fatherless and Single – no father figure affects relationship I never had the presence of a father to love and to show me how to love. I never believed that I needed a man’s love. I always said that a man’s love wouldn’t make a difference. For so long I have tried to make myself believe  that I am fine, that my mom is enough for me and my life is perfect. As I’m getting older I start to realize that I can’t avoid the fact that I’m missing something and that I am in need of  a male companion and in need of love from a man; every time I see someone with his/her father my heart shatters. I have always wondered what it feels like to have a father, to wake up in the morning and say “Good morning dad”, to get drop off school by him and hug him and say “Bye dad” or to say “I love you dad.”

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Dear RelationshipDJ, there are some men that just do not get it when a girl is not into them. Here’s my situation,

Nothing is worse than a man that can’t see that the girl is just not into him. Men when you get direct and indirect messages that the woman is not interested, please take it into consideration. What many guys don’t realize is that most of the times its impossible to change a woman mind. I think you can get a woman to fall in love you if she already liked you or was interested in you but if she’s not even interested in talking to you, then getting to that point can be quite difficult. I would like to share a story with all of you of a man who just didn’t get it. 

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Dear Relationshipdj,

I was reading one of your relationship stories and decided that I would like to share mine. I’m 25 years old and I have been dating this guy for about 5 years now. We both really love each other and I know that one day I want to marry this man, but I know that day can’t be anytime in the near future, but he wants it to be much sooner than I do. You see, I’m in school and school is so important to me, and I just don’t feel mature enough to handle being in school and taking care of a husband all at the same time. I know that sounds selfish but it’s the truth. He tells me that he’s getting old and that he’s ready to start a family. What really hit home for me the other day was when he said he’s ready to start with or without me.

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I have been dating my girl for a while now and we have never celebrated Valentine’s Day not once during our relationship. Does that make us the odd couple, well you can say that if you want but we are out lasting most of the couples that do celebrate Valentine’s Day.

Before I even start this, please understand that I am not telling people not to celebrate February 14^th, hey if into this type of thing, go for it, but just take a look at my take on the whole thing.

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