http://relationshipdj.com/2010/02/11/25-and-want-to-get-married-why-it-is-that-men-are-afraid-of-getting-married/#utm_source=feed&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=feed We are sharing our Relationship Stories that grew from Local Relationship to a Long Distance Relationship. Great Relationship Advice Mon, 30 Aug 2010 21:28:46 -0500 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 http://relationshipdj.com/2010/02/11/25-and-want-to-get-married-why-it-is-that-men-are-afraid-of-getting-married/comment-page-1/#comment-82 DrG1 Mon, 26 Jul 2010 20:27:28 +0000 http://relationshipdj.com/?p=47#comment-82 Hey Ally, I know this has been long over due but in a situation like yours, you really need to find out exactly what he needs or wants to do. If you don't have a plan or a goal, what is there to achieve? So, you need to find out from him what does he wants and if what he wants is not what you want, Why stay? Don't worry about starting over, most times starting over is the best thing. If you have a goal you want to acheive, anyone that's not going to help you acheive them, just leave them behind. Hey Ally, I know this has been long over due but in a situation like yours, you really need to find out exactly what he needs or wants to do. If you don’t have a plan or a goal, what is there to achieve? So, you need to find out from him what does he wants and if what he wants is not what you want, Why stay? Don’t worry about starting over, most times starting over is the best thing. If you have a goal you want to acheive, anyone that’s not going to help you acheive them, just leave them behind.

]]> http://relationshipdj.com/2010/02/11/25-and-want-to-get-married-why-it-is-that-men-are-afraid-of-getting-married/comment-page-1/#comment-81 ally Sat, 15 May 2010 19:57:44 +0000 http://relationshipdj.com/?p=47#comment-81 i'm not usually one to comment on things but for the love of god! Men suck. i'm in the same boat now. i'm only 21 but i know what i want. i want to marry and have a kid by 30. preferably 28 but i'll wiggle. i dont want to be an old mom. if i'm past 30 and i dont have a kid yet then i wont have a kid. thats it. end of story. and what my boyfriend (of 3 years by the way) seems to think is that he just wants to coast on through and see what happens. but i don't have that kind of time! he doesnt seem to understand, if we date til i'm 24, and he decides that hes not feeling it, then that leaves me 6 year to start over from scratch. who knows how long it'll take me to find someone else. i dont know what to do. do i stay and just pray to god it happens and possibly wind up screwed in the end, or do i leave now while i still can? is that selfish of me? i’m not usually one to comment on things but for the love of god! Men suck. i’m in the same boat now. i’m only 21 but i know what i want. i want to marry and have a kid by 30. preferably 28 but i’ll wiggle. i dont want to be an old mom. if i’m past 30 and i dont have a kid yet then i wont have a kid. thats it. end of story. and what my boyfriend (of 3 years by the way) seems to think is that he just wants to coast on through and see what happens. but i don’t have that kind of time! he doesnt seem to understand, if we date til i’m 24, and he decides that hes not feeling it, then that leaves me 6 year to start over from scratch. who knows how long it’ll take me to find someone else. i dont know what to do. do i stay and just pray to god it happens and possibly wind up screwed in the end, or do i leave now while i still can? is that selfish of me?

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