Comments on: 25 and want to get married – Why it is that men are afraid of getting married? http://relationshipdj.com/2010/02/11/25-and-want-to-get-married-why-it-is-that-men-are-afraid-of-getting-married/ We are sharing our Relationship Stories that grew from Local Relationship to a Long Distance Relationship. Great Relationship Advice Thu, 03 May 2012 19:07:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Personal relationship advice on love break-up, marriage and romance to discover ourself better http://relationshipdj.com/2010/02/11/25-and-want-to-get-married-why-it-is-that-men-are-afraid-of-getting-married/#comment-644 Personal relationship advice on love break-up, marriage and romance to discover ourself better Sun, 29 Apr 2012 04:38:39 +0000 http://relationshipdj.com/?p=47#comment-644 <strong>Personal relationship advice on love break-up, marriage and romance to discover ourself better...</strong> [...]25 and want to get married – Why it is that men are afraid of getting married? - Mixing thoughts and advice on Long Distance Relationship| Relationships Story | Mixing thoughts and advice on Long Distance Relationship| Relationships Story[...]... Personal relationship advice on love break-up, marriage and romance to discover ourself better…

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]]> By: relationadmin http://relationshipdj.com/2010/02/11/25-and-want-to-get-married-why-it-is-that-men-are-afraid-of-getting-married/#comment-182 relationadmin Mon, 27 Sep 2010 11:48:36 +0000 http://relationshipdj.com/?p=47#comment-182 Thank you Kevin for this great comment. Thank you Kevin for this great comment.

]]> By: Kevin http://relationshipdj.com/2010/02/11/25-and-want-to-get-married-why-it-is-that-men-are-afraid-of-getting-married/#comment-181 Kevin Sun, 26 Sep 2010 08:12:34 +0000 http://relationshipdj.com/?p=47#comment-181 I understand where you ladies are comming from, the reason why men are afraid to get married is because you wonder if you will be missing out on something better. It is pure false sense of ego working in men and they dont understand it. One way to get rid of that ego like I have done was to force yourself not to have a girlfriend, not to be attractive to women and live all alone for as long as you can stand it, and then some. Once you do that your natural longing to be with a woman comes back and you have a deeper apperication for being with a woman but if you are always getting dates, and having girlfriends left and right or even think you can, than you're not ready to grow up as a man. Women men are not taught how to be men anymore, and just about all of you ladies especially younger ladies have nothing but boys deep down inside. I hope this comment has helped you out. You cant pressure little boys into getting married, and if you trick them they will cheat on you, and if you pressure them they will become scared and flake out on you and run away. After all isnt that what little boys do. Stick to us older men, we are past that crap and want wives just as much as you want husbands. Chow. I understand where you ladies are comming from, the reason why men are afraid to get married is because you wonder if you will be missing out on something better. It is pure false sense of ego working in men and they dont understand it. One way to get rid of that ego like I have done was to force yourself not to have a girlfriend, not to be attractive to women and live all alone for as long as you can stand it, and then some. Once you do that your natural longing to be with a woman comes back and you have a deeper apperication for being with a woman but if you are always getting dates, and having girlfriends left and right or even think you can, than you’re not ready to grow up as a man. Women men are not taught how to be men anymore, and just about all of you ladies especially younger ladies have nothing but boys deep down inside. I hope this comment has helped you out. You cant pressure little boys into getting married, and if you trick them they will cheat on you, and if you pressure them they will become scared and flake out on you and run away. After all isnt that what little boys do. Stick to us older men, we are past that crap and want wives just as much as you want husbands. Chow.

]]> By: DrG1 http://relationshipdj.com/2010/02/11/25-and-want-to-get-married-why-it-is-that-men-are-afraid-of-getting-married/#comment-82 DrG1 Mon, 26 Jul 2010 20:27:28 +0000 http://relationshipdj.com/?p=47#comment-82 Hey Ally, I know this has been long over due but in a situation like yours, you really need to find out exactly what he needs or wants to do. If you don't have a plan or a goal, what is there to achieve? So, you need to find out from him what does he wants and if what he wants is not what you want, Why stay? Don't worry about starting over, most times starting over is the best thing. If you have a goal you want to acheive, anyone that's not going to help you acheive them, just leave them behind. Hey Ally, I know this has been long over due but in a situation like yours, you really need to find out exactly what he needs or wants to do. If you don’t have a plan or a goal, what is there to achieve? So, you need to find out from him what does he wants and if what he wants is not what you want, Why stay? Don’t worry about starting over, most times starting over is the best thing. If you have a goal you want to acheive, anyone that’s not going to help you acheive them, just leave them behind.

]]> By: ally http://relationshipdj.com/2010/02/11/25-and-want-to-get-married-why-it-is-that-men-are-afraid-of-getting-married/#comment-81 ally Sat, 15 May 2010 19:57:44 +0000 http://relationshipdj.com/?p=47#comment-81 i'm not usually one to comment on things but for the love of god! Men suck. i'm in the same boat now. i'm only 21 but i know what i want. i want to marry and have a kid by 30. preferably 28 but i'll wiggle. i dont want to be an old mom. if i'm past 30 and i dont have a kid yet then i wont have a kid. thats it. end of story. and what my boyfriend (of 3 years by the way) seems to think is that he just wants to coast on through and see what happens. but i don't have that kind of time! he doesnt seem to understand, if we date til i'm 24, and he decides that hes not feeling it, then that leaves me 6 year to start over from scratch. who knows how long it'll take me to find someone else. i dont know what to do. do i stay and just pray to god it happens and possibly wind up screwed in the end, or do i leave now while i still can? is that selfish of me? i’m not usually one to comment on things but for the love of god! Men suck. i’m in the same boat now. i’m only 21 but i know what i want. i want to marry and have a kid by 30. preferably 28 but i’ll wiggle. i dont want to be an old mom. if i’m past 30 and i dont have a kid yet then i wont have a kid. thats it. end of story. and what my boyfriend (of 3 years by the way) seems to think is that he just wants to coast on through and see what happens. but i don’t have that kind of time! he doesnt seem to understand, if we date til i’m 24, and he decides that hes not feeling it, then that leaves me 6 year to start over from scratch. who knows how long it’ll take me to find someone else. i dont know what to do. do i stay and just pray to god it happens and possibly wind up screwed in the end, or do i leave now while i still can? is that selfish of me?

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